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The Fruit of One’s Life

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Christians have long recognized the significance of good works in the book of James. While the apostle stresses the need to put God’s Word into practice, he includes a passage that explores the psychological depth that gives rise to unrighteousness and its ill effects. It lays out a sequence of stages of the development of evil.

“But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. 15Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it has run its course, brings forth death.” – James 1:14-15 (NASB)

Sin starts with lust. In the Bible,  the Greek noun epithumia refers to strong desire or craving. In other words, lust makes us scour the world searching for what will satisfy our desires. Lust makes us look at or for something or someone we might consume. It’s self-centered, which tells us something must be wrong inside if we have these kinds of cravings.

But lust isn’t in total control of our hearts. It tempts us, but it doesn’t force us to grab what we want. James implies we have a measure of authority over our choices; in God’s eyes, we’re responsible for ourselves.

Lust isn’t a passive foe of our souls; it’s busy affecting the course of our lives. James tells us that it has the ability to conceive. That image suggests that selfish desire creates a consequence beyond itself. It’s self-centered, but not isolated. Something germinates within our hearts. It hides, but grows. And after a time (how long, we don’t know), it emerges. Lust births a child.

James calls this offspring “sin.” The Greek word (hamartia) means to miss the mark. It describes how an archer’s arrow fails to hit a target. In Paul’s understanding, “the glory of God” is the bull’s-eye (Romans 3:23). For John, “sin is lawlessness” (1 John 3:4). The inner desire has now produced something that has an aberrant life of its own. Sin, turning us away from God’s will and His ways, sets out on an independent path.

Sin doesn’t stay small. Although it starts out as vulnerable and non-threatening, it grows into adulthood. It becomes death.

In the Bible, death is much more than the cessation of animated physical existence. It’s separation from God, the Source of life. The Lord had warned Adam and Eve that on the day they disobeyed Him, they would die (Genesis 2:17). But after they’d succumbed to temptation, they lived a long time banished from the Garden of Eden. God wasn’t wrong; death was spreading. Sin separated humanity from God; that’s death, not life as the Lord intended for us. And it comes in waves–spiritual separation from God, relational separation from others, and physical separation of spirit from body.

Without using the word, James likens the outcome of sin to fruit. Death is rotten fruit.

For the most part, we don’t have to be told not to eat spoiled food. The ruined appearance, the awful smell, and the lousy taste convince us to keep away! We want something better; we’re looking for fruit that exists as it’s supposed to, the way God designed it.

So what would be the opposite of this degrading process James describes?

Within James’ letter, love is the antithesis of lust. These do function in similar ways; like lust, love also makes us look, but their purposes differ. When we walk in love, we keep our eyes open so we might bless others. We aim to give, not get.

And like lust, love is a strong desire, but it’s not selfish. Rather than filling its own belly, love seeks the fulfillment of others. This can include little things, like a cup of cold water (Matthew 10:42), or big things, like announcing the gospel of Jesus Christ (Acts 2:14-41).

Love also conceives and what grows within it remains hidden for a season. The work of love isn’t always visible, but after a while, it gives birth to a child, the opposite of death. That’s life!

The kind of life James strives for is spiritual and practical. He encourages us Christians to help each other and to care for each other. When we do, we please the Lord. Our faith in Christ proves vital, not vain.

Good fruit is life-giving. It nourishes the body, but more than that, its fragrance and taste also delight the soul. And so our discipleship in Christ should be a blessing. Living out our commitment to Jesus will enrich us personally, but it will also gladden those around us.

Fruit is the outcome of our lives. The world encourages us to chase after whatever we want, whenever we want, by any means necessary. That’s why there are so many problems in individuals and societies.

The way of life in Jesus Christ, drawing from the God of life, fills the heart and frees people to serve, share, and bless.

The choice is ours.

Turning 18

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(For Michael)

In the eyes of the law, you’re now an adult. Some cultures celebrate with elaborate rituals this transition from childhood to adulthood. Americans, not so much. About the closest we have to a rite of passage is high school graduation.

You spent more than two-thirds of your life in schools getting ready for–what? Where do you go from here? What’s next? How do you decide?

Listen to God’s advice:

“Prepare your work outside and make it ready for yourself in the field; afterwards, then, build your house.” – Proverb 24:27

“Prepare”

You’re at the beginning of adulthood; it will take time for you to get to where you need to be. Before going on this trip, pack well. Take with you whatever will help you travel, and keep your eyes open all through the journey. The world hasn’t changed, but you have; so the world’s different. Bring with you the familiar to ease you into the unknown.

“Your”

This adventure can feel selfish, but God wants you to contemplate yourself. He rejoices when you discover who He has made you to be. Don’t hide from your desires and interests; they’re your friends.

“Work”

School is like work–you have assignments, duties, responsibilities, and evaluations. But too much of childhood education is imposed; you have little choice about when, what, and even how you learn.

Now, you can determine where to invest your time, talents, and treasures. Intimidating? Yes, but God has made you strong, so devote your energy to what accords best with who you are in Christ. In the words of Frederick Buechner, “Vocation is the place where our deep gladness meets the world’s deep need.”

“Outside”

To detect the problems society faces, look around you. Find out for yourself what people deal with and investigate how your skills and talents can provide solutions. Remember that the Lord has put something special inside you for the benefit of others. Don’t keep it locked away.

“And”

God repeats Himself because we’re slower to absorb what He’s telling us than we’d like to admit. We need to hear it twice but that’s okay! There’s biblical precedent:

“Further, my brothers and sisters, rejoice in the Lord! It is no trouble for me to write the same things to you again, and it is a safeguard for you.” – Philippians 3:1

“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” – Philippians 4:4

“Dear friends, this is now my second letter to you. I have written both of them as reminders to stimulate you to wholesome thinking.” – 2 Peter 3:1

“This will be my third visit to you. ‘Every matter must be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.’” – 2 Corinthians 13:1

“Make”

Preparing your work is going to require, well, work! It takes effort. There will be days when demands seem light and you handle everything easily. Other days, the labor will weigh on you and you’ll feel like giving up. Stay consistent in your work; doing a little bit each day adds up, so persevere. As James Clear recommends, fall in love with boredom. It’s the secret to success.

“It”

What are you sinking your time into? A college major? A business venture? An invention? Whatever it is, it’s not fixed. It’ll morph as you develop your idea and learn your craft. But you’ll also discover that God’s Spirit has been giving you direction all along; you’re not wasting your time.

“Ready”

“Patience,” as Joyce Meyer puts it, “is not simply the ability to wait–it’s how we behave while we’re waiting.” You won’t earn your degree in 10 minutes, so you’ll have to develop patience. But do more than endure; enjoy the process. Thrive as you prepare your future and you’ll find even greater delight when it arrives.

“For”

Your life has to have a purpose. You can live an unexamined life for so long before the deeper issues emerge from your heart and demand a hearing. Simon Sinek suggests that you “start with why.” This does more than keep you from wasting time. According to Jason Burnham, “Your purpose should ignite your passions and inspire you to be the best you that you can possibly be. It should utilize your skills and past experiences, while stimulating personal growth and future opportunity.”

“Yourself”

The greatest gift you can give someone is yourself. Jesus says as much:

“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” – John 15:13

But He also demonstrates it:

“This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down His life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters.” – 1 John 3:16

Do you have a self to give? Do you know who you are? When you do, you have something wonderful to offer to God and to the world.

“In the field”

If “what do you do” is the most repeated question at get-togethers, “where do you work” may run a close second. At this stage of your life, you don’t have to answer those. Yet!

But you’ll encounter similar ones: “what’s your major” and “where do you go to school?” The world’s messy; we like to organize it and categorizing people is one such trick.

Don’t feel hemmed in by such talk. View these conversations as invitations to focus and clarify. God will guide you, but He may not spell out every last detail. That’s because a field is broad; you have plenty of room to run around and explore. So take advantage of the opportunities He’s giving you.

“Afterwards, then”

Work isn’t everything; school shouldn’t swallow your soul. You want to share what you’re learning, what you’re becoming. To use a different analogy, the path you take will cause you to meet up with like-minded travelers. Your friendships will be deep because the Lord is enriching your heart.

“Build your house”

When you’ve chosen your vocation and prepared your work, you’re in the right circumstances to start a family. You’re settled in your spirit and established in what you do. You’ll attract others who complement you and you’ll seek out those whom you admire.

“Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.” – 2 Timothy 2:22

In those friendships, one will stand out. This is love! Not self-possessed, amateur infatuation. As Antoine de Saint-Exupery describes it, “Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.”

Start looking now.

Happy birthday. I love you!

 

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