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Fear and Favor

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Is the church responsible for its reputation in society? Not to be indecisive here, but I can see it both ways. If reputation is nothing more than the opinions of others about us, then I’d say no. We can’t be responsible for what people think because we don’t control them. Whether they’re right or wrong, their ideas belong to them.

But we can give people reasons for holding us in high esteem. We can motivate them to sneer at us, too. What the church says and does contributes to how the world sees us.

I was reading a passage in Acts that brought to my mind the issue of reputation. I noticed some repeating themes, so as I did in the last series (links one, two, and three), I reformatted the paragraph. Here’s the structure I found in Acts 2:41-47 (HCSB):

41So those who accepted his message were baptized, and that day about 3,000 people were added to them.”

42And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching, to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread, and to the prayers. 43Then fear came over everyone, and many wonders and signs were being performed through the apostles.”

44Now all the believers were together and held all things in common. 4They sold their possessions and property and distributed the proceeds to all, as anyone had a need.”

46Every day they devoted themselves to meeting together in the temple complex, and broke bread from house to house. They ate their food with a joyful and humble attitude, 47apraising God and having favor with all the people.”

47bAnd every day the Lord added to them those who were being saved.”

Verses 41 and 47b highlight the growth of the church. Evangelism was working; people responded to the gospel. In big numbers and every day! Friends, relatives, neighbors, co-workers getting saved–how could folks not observe all this?

Next, verses 42-43 and 46-47a emphasize the devotional life of the first Christians. For them, the faith wasn’t a series of beliefs stuck in the back of their minds. Jesus Christ changed the way they lived. New ideas, new family, new commitments, even miraculous experiences. Everything was different and people noticed!

Finally, verses 44-45 stress the generosity of the early church. Practical love showed society what the Christian life was all about.

I could dig into each of these themes, but I want to explore an aspect of the second one. You can see that I put two words in bold: fear and favor. These are the two principal reactions of the community to the church.

At first glance, these are opposites. Why would people look with favor on a group they’re afraid of? They wouldn’t! Instead, they’d blather about how foolish these Christians were for believing Jesus was the Messiah.

If we put fear and favor in a blender and mix them up, what do you suppose we’d get? How about respect? Or admiration? In other words, the early church had a good reputation in Jerusalem.

But like we said earlier, reputation is a two-way street. We need to act in loving and dignified ways, but we can’t force people to like us.

So how did the Jerusalem church gain a positive reputation in a short time?

The three themes show us how. Knowing good news is one thing; sharing it with others is something else. If we adhere to the truth of the gospel, we won’t keep it to ourselves. We’ll let others know how to enter into the life of forgiveness and fulfillment we’ve received in Jesus. 

And if we commit ourselves to Christ, we’ll want to learn all we can about Him. That’s dedication, and it transforms our souls. Our values change, decisions are different, and our motivations become pure. The process of growing in Christ will include everything from the mundane to the miraculous. We eat together with other believers, and we also pray for God to do the impossible.

The closer we get to Jesus, the more sensitive we become for brothers and sisters who are struggling. We empathize with what they’re going through, whether we’ve had similar experiences. What binds us together is not our histories but our hearts. Filled with His Spirit, we must act.

The society and culture of Jerusalem in the first century was of a monotheistic people awaiting the kingdom of God. What the Jewish people saw in the church reminded them of the kingdom, but it didn’t quite fit their expectations. Curious, they didn’t know what to make of it. Was this a God thing or some strange cult? But so impressive were the followers of Jesus the community recognized something special was at hand.

I don’t know what the environment of your church is like. People desperate for spiritual reality might surround you. Or your town might be a haven of hostiles. But as you continue to serve Jesus, the Lord can grant you the fear and favor of the area’s residents. How they respond to you is up to them. Your duty–our privilege–is to give them something worth responding to.

Don’t Be Afraid to Change Direction

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(This is the fourth post on pivoting and repentance. Here are the links to the first, second, and third articles.)

When I started my freshman year at Oral Roberts University, I wrestled with choosing a major. About the only thing I was certain of was that I didn’t want to major in theology! I told the Lord I’d consider any subject except that one. I felt like it would be fine for church involvement but not for a college education.

After reviewing my options, I settled on social work because it seemed to integrate two areas that appealed to me: helping people and psychology.

Among my first semester classes was Introduction to Behavioral Science, one of the general ed courses ORU required of all students. This was perfect; because it was similar to social work, I’d get a chance to explore the field right away.

A good plan except for one thing; I hated it! This shocked me; I thought I’d enjoy learning about the dynamics of human behavior, but I couldn’t connect with the textbook or the lectures. I passed the class but my heart wasn’t in it.

Back to the drawing board–I needed to choose a major! If I couldn’t stomach behavioral science, then majoring in social work was out of the question. Where did that leave me?

Going over the student handbook again proved fruitless; nothing fit. I believed that Jesus wanted me at ORU but for what reason?

Breaking down, I called out to God: “Why did you send me here, Lord? What am I supposed to major in?”

And that’s when He replied, no doubt with a smile: “theology!”

God insisted on the one major I’d rejected!

I was in no position to argue, so I repented and did as I was told. At dinner, I told a couple of friends about my switch. Instead of razzing me, they applauded the move! In their minds, this was the right decision.

Was it? Well, God honored that step of obedience because for decades I’ve used that degree for church work, Christian education, and missions.

I pivoted, but it wasn’t easy. Why not? What makes it difficult to turn and change direction? Why is it hard to repent and think a new way?

Larry Alton explores these questions in relation to business. He notes that “Entrepreneurs often put off a pivot because they feel like it’s a sign of weakness – as if they’re publicly admitting failure for everyone to see. But the reality is that the opposite is true. A pivot shows that you’re aware of your surroundings and willing and able to recognize new opportunities as they arise. Investors, business partners, and customers respect this.”

I can relate. I blushed over choosing a major I didn’t like but worried that I wouldn’t find something I did. And I was sheepish about having to tell people that I’d changed my mind.

But Alton is right; pivoting is worth it and garners respect.

Most of the time.

But not always.

Sometimes, people fight your pivot.

“For you have spent enough time in the past doing what pagans choose to do–living in debauchery, lust, drunkenness, orgies, carousing and detestable idolatry. 4They are surprised that you do not join them in their reckless, wild living, and they heap abuse on you.” – 1 Peter 4:3-4

They don’t like the new you. The fact that you’ve changed bothers them and they’ll let you know it.

Resistance attacks you from within yourself and from other people. So how do you fight back?

Alton suggests that “before you pivot, you probably want to be sure that you’re making a smart decision.”

Did I give the behavioral science class enough time? Should I have spend more time researching career prospects in theology?

“What ifs” can gnaw at your confidence and keep you from either making a change or regretting your decision after the fact.

Think it through; clarify what you’re letting go and turning toward.

“For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not sit down first and count the cost, whether he has enough to finish it– 29lest, after he has laid the foundation, and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him, 30saying, ‘This man began to build and was not able to finish.’” – Luke 14:28-30 (NKJV)

In my case, I knew what I didn’t like, but I hadn’t a clue about what to do next. Yet that put me in the ideal spot to receive guidance from Jesus.

And He won’t fail you. As you take stock of where you’re at in life and where you need to be, ask the Lord for His help. He’ll respond.

“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with My loving eye on you.” – Psalm 32:8

Not to pressure you, but Alton claims that “a failure to pivot at just the right time can result in a total collapse of your business. A pivot in the wrong direction can also lead to failure. In fact, you have to pivot at the right time and in the right direction in order to reap the rewards of such a transition.”

Don’t panic, God has control of the issues of your life! He lets things fall apart so you can turn to Him, lean on Him, and depend on His grace.

“For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, ‘Do not fear; I will help you.’” – Isaiah 41:13

Where do you feel stuck in your life? Are your relationships at home or at work in trouble? Do you feel like spiritual advancement lies outside your grasp no matter how hard you try?

Take Alton’s advice and “consider the viability of a pivot. It might be the best decision you ever make.”

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