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Better?

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Disciples are learners; listening to Jesus, they obey what He says. At the most basic level, they agree with Him.

At least that’s what I tell myself.

I acknowledge that Jesus is never wrong, but sometimes, my heart isn’t in sync with His. 

Here’s an example:

“But very truly I tell you, it is for your good that I am going away. Unless I go away, the Advocate will not come to you; but if I go, I will send him to you.” – John 16:7 (NIV)

That early phrase bugs me: “It is for your good that I am going away.” I can’t imagine any of the twelve apostles thinking, “Excellent, Jesus is leaving us!” I wouldn’t! 

The New International Version doesn’t mistranslate the verse. Here’s how other versions render it:

  • Christian Standard Bible: “It is for your benefit that I go away.”
  • King James Version: “It is expedient for you that I go away.”
  • New King James Version: “It is to your advantage that I go away.”
  • Young’s Literal Translation: “It is better for you that I go away.”

Were I in the shoes (sandals!) of Christ’s original disciples, I wouldn’t have rejoiced over such news. Having given up everything for Him (see Matthew 19:27), why would they want Jesus to leave them? They’ve recognized Him as the Messiah (see Matthew 16:16); the Lord’s departure isn’t part of their plans!

Staving off objections, Jesus explains Himself. His exit signals the arrival of the Holy Spirit. And in Christ’s opinion, that’s better for the disciples.

Do you agree? Would you rather have a physical Jesus or an invisible and intangible Spirit? I’d choose Jesus!

But relationship is not at issue here; ministry is. Hours away from His arrest, trial, and crucifixion, Jesus’ service was almost finished. His disciples weren’t counting on the cross; they expected Him to rule Israel and usher in the kingdom of God. 

Had Jesus done so, the kingdom would have been empty because no one deserved to get in. A King alone in His kingdom–not a pretty picture!

To deliver people from their sins and make them right with God, Christ had to die on the cross. The Father honored this work by raising Him from the dead (see Philippians 2:8-10). The price now paid, people can gain access to God.

But someone has to spread the word! That’s why Jesus commissioned His disciples as witnesses. And He promised them the Spirit who would bless their testimony like He had anointed Christ’s words.

Yes, we yearn to behold the physical presence of Jesus. That’s a good desire. But our responsibilities demand the gift of the Spirit to make us effective and fruitful. For service to the Lord, that’s better.

One day we’ll see Jesus face to face; He’s promised to come back and take us to Himself (see John 14:3). But until that day, we have work to do. To share the gospel and make disciples, we need the Spirit. To remain loyal to Jesus when we face rejection and pressure, we rely on the Comforter. Not only will He bless our works, He will also prepare us to see Jesus.

What Jesus did on earth is great. What He continues to do through us by His Spirit–that’s better!

Reminding God

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Why remind God of His Word? Many of us grew up hearing that when we pray, we should repeat His promises. But since the Lord knows everything anyway, why waste time? If we pour out our hearts and make our requests, haven’t we done enough?

We quote Scripture in our prayers for one of three reasons.

To Prod God’s Memory

When we’ve been counting on a promise in the Bible that God has yet to fulfill, we might feel like He forgot what He said. So we recite Bible verses to help Him recall.

But God doesn’t forget anything! His Word stays fresh in His mind; even our good works don’t fade from view.

“Not one of all the LORD’s good promises to Israel failed; every one was fulfilled.” – Joshua 21:45

“God is not unjust; he will not forget your work and the love you have shown him as you have helped his people and continue to help them.” – Hebrews 6:10

According to the Bible, then, we don’t have to remind God of His promises. He keeps track of everything He’s ever said.

To Provoke God’s Actions

Yet when we experience a gap between promise and performance, we suspect that God changed His mind. We fear He doesn’t want to do what He told us He would. So we quote verses to force Him to honor the contract He made with us.

But we don’t have to worry about the Lord’s motivation. He cares about us and wants the best for us.

“The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” – 2 Peter 3:9

In the worst case, we could worry that God never intended to keep His promise. In other words, He lied.

But the Bible will have none of this!

“God is not human, that he should lie, not a human being, that he should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not fulfill?” – Numbers 23:19

We can count on God’s Word but that doesn’t mean we control His timing. So are we still in the dark about His motivation? Not exactly. Paul discloses God’s ultimate intention.

 “in the hope of eternal life, which God, who does not lie, promised before the beginning of time, 3and which now at his appointed season he has brought to light through the preaching entrusted to me by the command of God our Savior” – Titus 1:2-3

The gospel is God’s plan. Everything He says and does leads us to the person of Jesus Christ. And through Christ, we receive an eternal relationship with God.

Relationship–that’s God’s goal!

To Converse with God

When we pray, we speak to God with honesty, faith, and consistency. But it’s not like a normal conversation; we don’t hear the Lord like we do other people. But we don’t want to do all the talking, because that’s a monologue! 

We quote Scripture to help us discern His voice. The Spirit will never tell us something that contradicts the Word. So when we recite verses to the Lord, we’re training our hearts to listen to His responses. It’s all about deepening our relationship with the Father.

When Jacob faced trouble with his brother Esau, he rehearsed God’s promises in prayer and reminded God that He would bless his family.

“Then Jacob prayed, ‘O God of my father Abraham, God of my father Isaac, LORD, you who said to me, “Go back to your country and your relatives, and I will make you prosper,” 10I am unworthy of all the kindness and faithfulness you have shown your servant. I had only my staff when I crossed this Jordan, but now I have become two camps. 11Save me, I pray, from the hand of my brother Esau, for I am afraid he will come and attack me, and also the mothers with their children. 12But you have said, “I will surely make you prosper and will make your descendants like the sand of the sea, which cannot be counted.”’” – Genesis 32:9-12

When Nehemiah was distressed over the news of the walls of Jerusalem still lying in ruins, he spoke the Scriptures in his prayers. The promise of a restored relationship with God was what Nehemiah sought for the Jewish people; but only the Lord Himself could redeem the city.

“Remember the instruction you gave your servant Moses, saying, ‘If you are unfaithful, I will scatter you among the nations, 9but if you return to me and obey my commands, then even if your exiled people are at the farthest horizon, I will gather them from there and bring them to the place I have chosen as a dwelling for my Name.’” – Nehemiah 1:8-9

Application

According to the church patriarch John Chrysostom, the purpose of prayer is “not to inform God or instruct Him but to beseech Him closely, to be made intimate with Him, by continuance in supplication; to be humbled; to be reminded of our sins.”

Invest your prayers with Scripture. Take time to read and listen to the Bible every day. As you do, don’t let the words stay in the book. Store them in your heart and speak them aloud to the Author. When you do, you will find your faith growing as you establish your prayers on the firm foundation of His Word.

Remind God of what He has said. Not because He forgets or hesitates, but because it’s a chance for you to grow closer to Him.

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