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Positive Repentance

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Last week’s blog post explored the biblical significance of the principle of pivoting even though the Scriptures seldom use the term. Two verses call door hinges “pivots” (1 Kings 6:34, Isaiah 6:4) and two others refer to pivoting as the act of changing direction (Ezekiel 1:17, 10:11).

My situation at the singles retreat epitomized the spiritual application of the word. I functioned as a hinge from a sermon about suffering to an announcement about a square dance. You could say I altered the direction of the retreat!

Hinges work only when they’re joined to two different objects. For a door to swing open or shut, its hinges have to connect to both the door and the frame. I connected myself to the speaker’s message and to the expectations of the audience. I didn’t criticize either; instead, I served as a point of transition, a way to redirect the energy in the room. That’s pivoting.

As I was writing the post, it struck me that this concept pervades the Bible. Pivoting reminds me of repentance.

When you pivot, you change direction to get a benefit. According to the gospel, you turn from your sins and trust in Jesus Christ for forgiveness and new life.

“For I take no pleasure in the death of anyone, declares the Sovereign Lord. Repent and live!” – Ezekiel 18:32

“‘So if God gave them the same gift he gave us who believed in the Lord Jesus Christ, who was I to think that I could stand in God’s way?’ 18When they heard this, they had no further objections and praised God, saying, ‘So then, even to Gentiles God has granted repentance that leads to life.’” – Acts 11:17-18

In popular imagination, repentance is something negative and gloomy. You feel remorse for your sins and regret what you’ve done. This has scriptural support.

“Come near to God and He will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. 9Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. 10Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will lift you up.” – James 4:8-10

But what if that’s not the whole picture?

In basketball, you pivot to find an open space so you can either shoot the ball or pass it to a teammate. In business, you pivot by dropping a product or service that’s floundering so you’re free to pursue another opportunity.

And here’s the key. When you pivot, you don’t abandon the old; you accept it as the basis for your next step. Larry Alton clarifies this positive dimension: “In a pivot, you aren’t totally abandoning your current situation. Instead, you’re looking for new options that may arise out of your current state.”

When Jesus cast thousands of demons out of a hapless victim, the liberated man wanted to tag along with Him. But, Christ had another idea.

“Jesus did not let him, but said, ‘Go home to your own people and tell them how much the Lord has done for you, and how he has had mercy on you.’ 20So the man went away and began to tell in the Decapolis how much Jesus had done for him. And all the people were amazed.” – Mark 5:19-20

The man returned to those who had loved him but feared his tortured and wicked condition. Now, they would see the same person–transformed and redeemed. His pivot shocked them.

Jesus called His first disciples to pivot from one form of fishing to another.

“As Jesus was walking beside the Sea of Galilee, He saw two brothers, Simon called Peter and his brother Andrew. They were casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. 19’Come, follow Me,’ Jesus said, ‘and I will send you out to fish for people.’ 20At once they left their nets and followed Him.” – Matthew 4:18-20

Rather than disparage their occupation, the Lord adapted it to introduce Peter and Andrew to life in the kingdom of God. These apostles didn’t abandon fishing so much as they discovered a new form. They pivoted the focus of their labor from fish to people.

And Paul chose to share the gospel by commending and then correcting the misguided religious zeal of the Greeks.

“While Paul was waiting for them in Athens, he was greatly distressed to see that the city was full of idols. 17So he reasoned in the synagogue with both Jews and God-fearing Greeks, as well as in the marketplace day by day with those who happened to be there . . . 22Paul then stood up in the meeting of the Areopagus and said: ‘People of Athens! I see that in every way you are very religious. 23For as I walked around and looked carefully at your objects of worship, I even found an altar with this inscription: to an unknown god. So you are ignorant of the very thing you worship–and this is what I am going to proclaim to you.’” – Acts 17:16-17, 22-23

The apostle would have been right to criticize the Athenians for their dedication to idols and statues. Right but ineffective. So he chose to help them pivot. Instead of keeping them in religious ignorance, he would reveal to the them the God they’d missed. These Greeks could repent by retaining the value of worship but finding fulfillment in God’s revelation through Jesus Christ.

Gospel ministry exposes spiritual blindness, selfishness, and demonic oppression. Jesus doesn’t shy away from confrontation and neither should you. Turn from whatever is holding you back from God’s best. Don’t let shame or embarrassment keep you from moving ahead in a new direction.

As Alton observes, “Entrepreneurs often put off a pivot because they feel like it’s a sign of weakness – as if they’re publicly admitting failure for everyone to see. But the reality is that the opposite is true. A pivot shows that you’re aware of your surroundings and willing and able to recognize new opportunities as they arise. Investors, business partners, and customers respect this.”

Repentance isn’t just about feeling guilty and humiliated. It’s an acknowledgment that God loves us in spite of our failures and is calling us to follow Jesus into a new life–one of purpose and fulfillment.

Dare to pivot toward the positive; that’s the purpose of repentance.

 

How to Change Someone’s Mind

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You can change someone’s mind by losing yours!

I exaggerate, but not too much. Have you ever heard the expression, “Why, I have a mind to . . .”? The word “mind” refers to one’s intentions.

Here’s another one: “Boy, I’d like to give him a piece of my mind!” By “mind” is meant motivated opinion; feelings more than bare facts.

What does this have to do with changing someone’s mind? God’s Word tells us:

“The Lord’s bond-servant must not be quarrelsome, but be kind to all, able to teach, patient when wronged, with gentleness correcting those who are in opposition, if perhaps God may grant them repentance leading to the knowledge of the truth, and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, having been held captive by him to do his will.” – 2 Timothy 2:24-26 (NASB)

If you believe you’re right about something, it’s only natural to want others to agree with you. Sometimes that’s easy; just share your idea and your friend may go along with you. Other times, it takes more effort.

Why? Because the more important an issue is to someone, the less likely he or she will adopt a new opinion. And when it comes to spiritual matters, people seem to be fixed in their positions, unwilling to budge an inch.

But if you exercise spiritual leadership of any sort, if you have responsibility for the well-being of the souls of others, you can’t avoid challenging inadequate or erroneous interpretations and perspectives. You have to help people repent.

Start with yourself. It’s one thing to believe you’re right about, say, a Bible verse. It’s another thing to be pushy about it. God hasn’t called you to be a bully!

Look at the qualities cited in the Scripture passage above: servant-hearted, agreeable (the opposite of quarrelsome), kind, communicative, patient, and gentle. To adopt these traits, you must lose a mindset of aggressiveness, haughtiness, and self-assurance.

When you adopt godly virtues, you lose a belligerent and antagonistic tone. This doesn’t guarantee that people will buy what you say, but puts the focus of the conversation where it belongs: on the spiritual truth you’re trying to get across.  

Psychologist Travis Bradberry likens this attitude to authenticity. He writes that “authentic people have too much self-respect to put up with people who treat them badly or have ill will toward them, and they have too much respect for other people to try to change them. So they let go–not out of anger, but out of their need to be true to themselves.”

When you’re true to who you are in Christ, when you think and behave like Jesus, you find the freedom to stick to your principles. You don’t cave to peer pressure.

But Bradberry overstates what respect entails. You can respect someone and try to alter their behavior. In fact, you may seek transformation in the life of a loved one precisely because you respect that person.

It depends on your motivation. According to author Paulo Coelho, “it is not time that changes man nor knowledge; the only thing that can change someone’s mind is love.” People can feel your concern; they can also sense your anger or disdain.

Love communicates, but it also releases. How then, can you change the mind of someone you care for?

You can’t, but God can!

The passage from 2 Timothy states that God grants repentance; He changes minds. But again, even this isn’t guaranteed. Notice the words “if,” “perhaps,” and “may”. It could be that God will use you to catalyze positive change in someone’s heart. But even if you don’t see those results, you can rest assured of two things.

First, you did the right thing for the right reasons. People like to communicate what they know. Even the shy and introverted among us will dare to speak up when they see people failing. Love offers help.

Second, you trusted the Lord. You demonstrate confidence in Jesus when you speak calmly. You show that you mean what you say when you leave the results of your conversations up to God. And you display hope in the Lord when you yield to Him time and space to work in someone’s life.

To change someone’s mind, change yours. Abandon self-serving and forceful motives. Let love give you poise in your demeanor and assurance in your heart. The Lord will honor your efforts, and you may see the fruits of your labor: souls liberated from prisons of evil and deception. That’s what God can do!

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